If you associate with more of these thoughts than less, we might have a shot. Here is the brain dump. Strap in:
Love my kids, and do anything for them. Only have a few years left before they totally don't need me for the things they need me for now. The investment in them will pay off forever.. Enjoy my crazy job. Mostly. Renovating my place, sloooowly. Enjoying that, except I now despise tradesmen. God they have it good. Movies are awesome. Even the dumb-ass blockbusters. Spent a stupid amount of coin on my home theatre. Saturday night on the couch is one of my favourite things to do. I play videogames with my son, share the latest alternative bands with my eldest, and walk the dog/search for lizards with my animal crazy youngest. Love how different they are. Looking for someone to just be comfortable with, a best friend. I work in the corporate world, ideally you do too, it's a thing we need in common. Music is a big part of my life, two hours in the car every day will do that. One word: Spotify. My playlist is stupidly varied. Theatre moves me. I'm not that critical of things, or people or anything. Not everything/one can be to your taste. Deal with it. I never get angry anymore, someone really cool taught me how. My boss says I'm the calmest person she's ever met. I'm cheeky. If your humour is anything like mine, I will make you smile a lot. I like sarcasm that is understood for what it is. It's usually a veiled piece of advice when it comes from friends. 3 awesome friends > 20 "friends". I'm a bit crazy. Learned a lot about who I am after 2.5 years being single. Bodytype slimmer than average, but not quite slim (yet). Madly in love with my Dog.
If you got this far and are thinking WTF. Then it could be coffee time
At a glance
|Summary||Ben9999's details||Ben9999's ideal partner|
|Age||45 years old||35 - 44 yrs old|
|Location||Central Coast, NSW||within 25km of Kariong 2250|
|Body type||Average||Average, Slim|
|Height||5'11/180 cm||5'4/162 cm - 6'0/183 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke, Occasionally / socially|
|Relationship status||Single||Separated, Widowed, Divorced, Single|
Yes, have children living at home sometimes
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine|
|Hair colour||Dark Brown|
|Ethnic/cultural background||North European|
|Political persuasion||Swinging voter|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Aquarius Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially|
|Diet||No special diet|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets|
|Education level||Diploma||Some college, Post Graduate, Degree, Diploma|
|Industry||Retail / Consumer / Personal Services|
What I'm looking for
Really down to earth, self sufficient, loves the idea of a passionate relationship, loves doing anything or nothing at all, can hold a conversation on any topic, is lighthearted and sexy in her own way. She wants to be someone's princess...
- Female, for a relationship or dating
- Many and varied. I spend two hours a day in my car, so I won't impose my tastes on you if you aren't into what I'm into...but I generally don't do commercial radio stuff...except when the kids demand it !
- You'll be glad to know I can read and write
- Movies & TV
- Love a good show. I download a fair bit and have been enjoying The Newsroom, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Big Bang, Suits, Dexter, Game of Thrones. Movie wise I'll watch pretty much anything from big and dumb action to arthouse, scifi or even a romcom (under some duress lol )
- Play squash with the guys at work..just recently got into mountain bike riding which is amazing fun
- Other Interests
- Tech stuff, I can be a bit geeky and am guilty of buying new toys too often !
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