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77, Male, Widowed, Central Coast & Surrounds, NSW
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GOTY MAN needs a SOULMATE who is "Getting Older but Thinking Younger" and is happy, active, intelligent, spiritual, witty, honest, articulate, playful & loving.

WHAT IS SO GREAT ABOUT BEING A GOTY? Even though I am "Getting Older" I am "Thinking Younger" and am not aging as rapidly as most others my age (and younger) because I am enjoying a boredom-free life without any daytime clubbing, booze, or TV. That is partly because after the sad death 9 years ago of my beloved wife of 46 years, my 5 adult kids dragged me out of my despair by motivating me into continuing to be socially & physically active. They broke the downward cycle of my going to the cemetery most days, by taking me to parties, introducing me to new people, & organizing regular family dinners as their mother had always done. They encouraged me to continue my early morning power walking and to take up social dancing again.
I was physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually regenerated by their loving support, my growing social circle and increased fitness. My penchant for repartee & humour returned and I went back to my libretto for a Musical Comedy & my Post-Doctoral commercial research. For relaxation, I began training for Ballroom Dancing medals at 68 y.o. and ultimately started competing in Ballroom Dancing and Argentine Tango (see Tango Floor Show photos). I was 73 when I won the Australasian Ballroom Championship with my beautiful 33y.o. Tango partner. I ticked that off my bucket list and returned to social dancing and brain-challenging part-time research, each of which is a turn-off for many women.
I look younger than 75 because I am health conscious; mentally & physically active; & chill-out with music, by taking a forest or beach walk, or entertaining friends and family. I'll do this until the Good Lord grants me long service leave as he did my dear Mother at age 94.
Thus, I need a SOULMATE who also wants a long, loving, joyful & active life.

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At a glance

Summary GOTY1's details GOTY1's ideal partner
Age 77 years old 58 - 78 yrs old
Location Central Coast & Surrounds, NSW

(Central Coast NSW)

Within 75km of his
Body type Average Average, A bit overweight, Athletic, Slim
Height 5'6/167 cm 5'0/152 cm - 5'8/172 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Widowed Divorced, Single, Widowed
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Age range
44 yrs - 54 yrs
Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children living at home, Yes, have children who don't live at home
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine
Personality Social Average, Social, Very Social
Eye colour Green
Hair colour Dark Brown
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian
Religion Other Christian Catholic, Other Christian, Other, Anglican
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Sign of the Zodiac Virgo Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Non-drinker, Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet Other special diet, Vegan, No special diet, Vegetarian
Have pets No, like pets but do not have any Yes, have pets, No, like pets but do not have any
Education level Post Graduate Diploma, Some college, High School, Post Graduate, Degree
Industry Education / Science Education / Science, Arts / Entertainment / Sport / Recreation, Government, IT / Telecoms, Retired, Consulting, Administration, Healthcare / Medical, HR/Employment / Training, Volunteer / Charity / Community, Student, Pharmaceutical / Biotechnology
Job role Professional Business Owner, Other, Management, Senior Management, Tradesperson, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Executive, Professional, Technical, Customer Service Role

What I'm looking for

My ideal partner has a positive outlook on life & is certainly not "Waiting for God". She is a nurturer who loves her family & is loved by them as I am by my family. She is happy, active, fit, intelligent, thoughtful, spiritual, witty, honest, articulate, playful & is ready for a loving relationship

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Classical; Opera; Jazz; Blues; R&R; A Cappella; some Pop; basically anything instrumental or vocal to which I can dance, improvise, sing along, or harmonize - excepting some (but not all) head-banging music. I love many modern Australian symphonic, concerto, chamber and didgeridoo compositions.
Currently re-reading some of the literary classics and great poetry. I spend more time keeping up with news from the scientific, medical, health, computing, and international political scenes. Although friends say I am "a fund of useless information", they call me for advice and T.Pursuit answers.
Movies & TV
I love musicals, comedies, and well-written, emotionally dramatic movies and TV series produced in Europe and the UK. I have also laughed or cried when viewing Australian icons such as "The Castle" and "Rabbit-Proof Fence" at Avoca Beach Cinema. My daughter and I recently loved "The Sapphires".
Body Surfing; Walking; Social Dancing (Ballroom; Latin American; Rock & Roll; New Vogue; English Old Time; Disco; Argentine Tango). A GOTY WOMAN's inability to dance is not a deal-breaker. There are countless other activities that loving partners can enjoy together, especially in the wide outdoors.
Other Interests
I am an Ecumenical, Spiritual Christian and social activist. Although I am a sinner in the eyes of God, I have thrown the first stone at those, including clergy, who abuse their power to deprive others of their innocence, legal rights, property, self-respect, reputation, sanity &/or will to live.

My groups

  1. Over 50 & Fabulous
  2. The Great Outdoors
  3. Spiritual Singles
  4. Christian Singles
  5. Shall we dance

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