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49, Male, Single, Central Coast, NSW
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Apparently you will be the same person in 5 years except for 2 things, the books you read and the people you meet. What are you reading and who will you meet?

Ive lived all around Australia, travel every few years on average, planning my next trips.
Everyone has baggage, be a product of your life's experience and adventures.

Apparently Clooney, Beckham, Pitt are all taken and Mr Darcy is fiction

So back to reality, the rest of us are looking for "The One", like travel, music, restaurants, funny people, looking for a go getter and are nice.

A woman of substance.

I believe in old fashioned manners and honesty. I'm looking for someone, who is genuine, interesting, loyal and committed.

Men are really simple to understand. I've been one for a while now.
Traveling the world is great, but how does it make one ready for a relationship?

Don't kid yourself at 35+ the clock is ticking, don't be "undecided".
Financial security is more than having a job and its not men who wont commit

You understand one can't have it all, relationships are about compromise and take work every day, Mr Merchant Banker is only interested in a temporary lease or tax deduction.

Humour should not be confused with attraction, it is a personal thing.

Romance and Chivalry are NOT dead but Chemistry is an illusion. I do take my life seriously, you rarely get more than one chance.

Tip: Guys over 35, never married and without children aren't going to change. Don't expect them to.

Women are afraid of nice guys but you all want one

Say no to Players and Bad Boy's, all the great guy's are sick of hearing about them!

Wanting a "Go-getter" who doesn't "take life too seriously" is contradictory, I have full & great life, no time for nutters.

I'm fun, a morning person, great sense of humour, loyal, trustworthy, ex-defense, no BS guy, movies.

PS. Don't be addicted to mobile devices.

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At a glance

Summary aboveaverage's details aboveaverage's ideal partner
Age 49 years old 37 - 45 yrs old
Location Central Coast, NSW

(Central Coast)

within 75km of Hamlyn Terrace 2259
Body type Average Average, Athletic, Slim
Height 5'11/180 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Single
Have children Yes, have children living at home sometimes
How many
Age range
10 yrs
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours Undecided, Want (more) children of my own, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours
Personality Social
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Dark Brown
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian
Religion Anglican
Sign of the Zodiac Leo Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet
Have pets Yes, have pets
Industry IT / Telecoms
Job role Management

What I'm looking for

Someone with an edge, far too many clones here, communicative, literate, open to children, interesting, has a job, loves to travel, classy, refined and elegant Lives between Sydney, Parramatta, Blue Mountains and Newcastle. Must like Golden Retrievers, someone involved in their relationship.

  • Female, for a relationship or dating

My interests

Live Bands, if it's too loud then your too old!. 70's,80's and 90's. Have listened to Opera, classical. I have over 20000+ internet radio stations on my AV Amp, I won't be offended if you don't like my music.
Tom Clancy, Clive Cussler, Richard Herman,Dale Brown, Steven Coonts, Richard Herman, Mathew Reilly, Nelson Demille, political thrillers, history. Have read "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" and "50 Shades" was a great comedy can't wait for the movies!
Movies & TV
Mysteries, thrillers, some sci-fi, Game of Thrones, documentaries with a story. Enjoy NCIS, SBS, ABC 24, House, Iron Chef, foreign and old movies. Q&A, Life is Reality TV! recent movies include Argo and liked Oblivion, I saw Shawshank 20 years ago.
NRL only one Team - Manly, and only one motor sport team Ferrari. AFL - Go West Coast, Go Karting. Grand AM Sports car racing, Shopping is only a sport if you can out shop me.
Other Interests
Looking for someone who knows Real Men are secure enough to let their gears be shifted automatically, and that phones aren't for taking photos. Loved Picasso at the MET in NYC and in Sydney.

My groups

  1. Food and Wine Lovers
  2. Arts and Culture
  3. Mans Best Friend
  4. Sports Fans

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