Just another fish in the ocean
The grey hairs are multiplying, the wrinkles are appearing, and my skin isn't as taut as it used to be. But on the flip side, with the aging process comes maturity and knowing what I want out of life. I don't have to (or want to) bungie jump, sky dive or swim with man eating sharks to feel alive. I have a history (some call it baggage) which is inevitable at 41 years of age. Without my history I would not have my 2 adorable children, nor be the person I am today. I have well and truely left behind the weekend partying days of my youth, I rarely drink, and I don't smoke. I now prefer a quieter life enjoying the company of close friends and family. I would much prefer to go out for a quiet intimate drink or dinner where I can talk and get to know someone, than go to a loud night club.
I'm tall (5'10" or 178cm) so my ideal partner would be taller than me.
I am a born and bred country girl. I have lived in the city but my heart and soul belongs on the south coast. I love everything the south coast has to offer: the beaches, the breathtaking scenery, and the relaxed way of life. Although I do enjoy a visit to the city for a weekend away.
I have a fun and sometimes cheeky sense of humour. I can laugh at myself. My ideal partner would also be someone that enjoys a good laugh! I can be shy at times particularly in unfamiliar social situations and when getting to know someone new.
I'm now ready for the next chapter of my life. If you're sincere then please say hello. If you are just testing the waters, not sure if you're ready for a committed relationship, or just looking for new friends please don't reply.
At a glance
|Summary||iFiHadYou's details||iFiHadYou's ideal partner|
|Age||43 years old||38 - 52 yrs old|
|Location||Wollongong, NSW||within 75km of Shellharbour 2529|
|Body type||A bit overweight|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||at least 5'11/180 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Widowed, Single, Divorced, Separated|
Yes, have children living at home
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||North European, East European, South European|
|Political persuasion||No strong beliefs|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Scorpio Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker|
|Diet||No special diet||No special diet|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets|
|Education level||Some college|
|Job role||Customer Service Role|
What I'm looking for
I'm leaving this open to chance ... who knows! But tall is a must.
- Male, for a relationship or dating
- I particulary love Adele at the moment. I also like Pink, Thirsty Merc, Bon Jovi, Lady GaGa, Kelly Clarkson, Robbie Williams, Brian Adams. I like music from the 60's to the current top 40. I don't like rap or techno.
- Anything that grapbs my interest - either fiction or non-fiction.
- Movies & TV
- Thrillers, comedies, occassional action movie, family movies. I am not a fan of horror.
- Other Interests
- I do enjoy the odd bit of fishing (would love to be better though), photography, reading, country drives, markets, antique shops, getting out in the garden and pottering around.
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- Last online:
- 05 Apr '14