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55, Male, Single, Sydney City, NSW
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about me

Predictably unpredictable.

Just another 5'10" brown eyed, two legged man.
Or perhaps not.

I fashion ecuadors in thermidors. (But in a humane way).

Curious, compassionate, with a generic disdain for beer and footy as religion. I'm more of a coast-hugger. European lineage. Quirky, unconventional, sensual, intuitive, perceptive.
Traipsing the minefield of *internet dating* with only running shoes for protection (and my sniffer cat). Delving into the possibilities of self, and *self plus other.*

Although I'm an old bloke, I still enjoy a fast drive down bendy country roads, a spontaneous love making frolic out in nature, surprising you with something that you enjoy, rock that makes you dance, a surf, and occasionally snubbing your nose at the conservatism of people who think that forming an orderly queue is a paradigm of virtue

Writing, playing music, figuring out the last critical moves of the board game.

Looking for a connection with a woman who is actually ready to come on board. I will gladly engage with any possibility from instantly impulsive, to long term, as long as there is honesty, integrity, and self awareness. As rare as it may be.

I'm a performing musician, some-time architect, book writer, and probably too obsessive about the Oz Gummint. (But they deserve it).

Rules of the game:

¿ you have to be close to Sydney's Eastern Suburbs.
¿ I don't send kisses or have any stamps. You need to be proactive if you wish to know me.
¿ You need to be attractive of mind / body / spirit, slim - medium build.
¿ You are ready to meet (after exchanging a few electrons).
¿ You are sensual, sensible, sexy, (or prepared to explain why not).

Kiss me free!
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At a glance

Summary instrumental's details instrumental's ideal partner
Age 55 years old 38 - 60 yrs old
Location Sydney City, NSW

(eastern suburbs)

Within 10km of his
Body type Average Athletic, Slim, Average
Height 5'10/177 cm 5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Single Single, Divorced, Separated, Widowed
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Age range
22 yrs
Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, No, have no children, Yes, have children living at home
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine
Personality Social Average, Private, Very Social, Very Private, Social
Eye colour Brown Black, Blue, Grey, Green, Other, Hazel, Brown
Hair colour Other Dark Brown, Light Brown, Black, Blonde, Other, Red
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian Asian, South European, Mixed Race, Middle Eastern, East European, Other Caucasian, North European, Black / African, Hispanic / Latino, Other Islander, Aboriginal / TSI, Indian, Other
Religion Other Jewish, Agnostic, Hindu, New Age, Buddhist, Atheist, Other
Political persuasion Left wing Left wing, Swinging voter, No strong beliefs
Sign of the Zodiac Sagittarius Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker
Diet No special diet Vegan, No special diet, Vegetarian
Have pets Yes, have pets Yes, have pets, No, No, like pets but do not have any
Education level Post Graduate Diploma, Some college, Post Graduate, Degree
Industry Advertising / PR / Media
Job role Professional Student, Management, Technical, Business Owner, Professional, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Executive, Senior Management, Other

What I'm looking for

Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things, lets talk. Soon. LOCAL please.

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
Movies & TV
Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
Other Interests
Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.

My groups

  1. Over 50 & Fabulous
  2. Gumtree Singles
  3. Casual Liaisons

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