Let's just elope. *Appearance is something absolute, but reality is not that way - everything is interdependent, not absolute.* Dalai Lama.
I disdain internet dating; can't we just elope?
You judge me in a split second on the visuals; the rest is window dressing.
Engage with what is there:
*There are only two days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called Yesterday and the other is called Tomorrow. Today is the right day to Love, Believe, Do and mostly Live.* Dalai Lama.
We think we can measure everything (eg. RSVP profiles). In reality, we just *are.* If our connection is deep, there will be no choice, we will be together.
Generically everyone wants the same in relationships, food, travel, connection, joy, love, attraction, honesty. Ex-architect, musician, ex-lecturer, not the average guy (footy and beer are not my domains). Nature; the ocean, the late afternoon sun on my back, birdsong in rain forests, composing/recording/playing music. I cook well. An affinity for the sensual. Currently writing (books) about new ideas. Single!!
Someone nearby (Eastern Suburbs) not concerned with my height or irrelevant peripherals, and instead wants to physically meet me with an open heart and mind. This is rarer than expected, why are the "deal breakers" minutiae?
My heritage is European, brown eyes, square shoulders, olive skin. I prefer someone of European background & sensibility (not a *deal breaker.*) I can be opinionated, humourous, tactile, engaging, intellectual, youthful, serious, sensitive, sensual, warm, frivolous. If you are actually purchasing, rather than browsing, let's explore!
I have no *stamps* and will not be buying, (relevant reasons given) if you want to make contact, its over to you. I very rarely send kisses, and if I do, its is genuine and selective.
Simple pleasures: going up to the Mountains, perfectly ripe raspberries, music, quiet entwined relaxation, sharing, just *being.*
At a glance
|Summary||instrumental's details||instrumental's ideal partner|
|Age||54 years old||36 - 65 yrs old|
Sydney - City, NSW
|within 10km of Bondi 2026|
|Body type||Average||Average, Slim, Athletic|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Widowed, Divorced, Single, Separated|
Yes, have children who don't live at home
||No, have no children, Yes, have children living at home, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes|
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours||Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine|
|Personality||Social||Social, Very Social, Private, Very Private, Average|
|Eye colour||Brown||Black, Grey, Blue, Brown, Hazel, Other, Green|
|Hair colour||Other||Black, Other, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Red, Blonde|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||Other, North European, Indian, South European, Other Islander, Hispanic / Latino, Asian, Black / African, Middle Eastern, Other Caucasian, East European, Aboriginal / TSI, Mixed Race|
|Religion||Other||Agnostic, Jewish, New Age, Hindu, Other, Atheist, Buddhist|
|Political persuasion||Left wing||Left wing, No strong beliefs, Swinging voter|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Sagittarius Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Non-drinker, Occasionally / socially|
|Diet||No special diet||Vegetarian, No special diet, Vegan|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets||No, Yes, have pets, No, like pets but do not have any|
|Education level||Post Graduate||Degree, Diploma, Some college, Post Graduate|
|Industry||Advertising / PR / Media|
|Job role||Professional||Management, Technical, Senior Management, Other, Professional, Business Owner, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Student, Executive|
What I'm looking for
Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things, lets talk. Soon. LOCAL please.
- Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship
- Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
- Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
- Movies & TV
- Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
- The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
- Other Interests
- Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.
- Send a kiss to flirt and see if there is an initial attraction
- Open up a 30-day contact period* to send unlimited email
- During the contact period you can also chat if instrumental is online now.
- Get to know instrumental safely and securely before you exchange your personal contact details
* One RSVP stamp is required per contact period.
- Last online:
- 09 Dec '13