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54, Male, Single, Sydney - City, NSW
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Let's just elope. *Appearance is something absolute, but reality is not that way - everything is interdependent, not absolute.* Dalai Lama.

In the words of Clarkson, this *online dating* is: "rubbish!"
All this profiling .... a total disappointment and a predictor of little.

Most of us rely 89.5% on the visuals, and then extraordinary peccadilloes like
"you are too short?"

If you are an attractive, slim to medium, easy going, sensible and stable gal, contact me. C'est tout. If we find we have "a little" in common, maybe we would be friends. If we enter fireworks territory, the rocket can navigate stellar heights and exotic destinations. But that will take a unique traveling companion. And, bugger, you will have to put up with me. I'm not the average Joe (nothing against Josephs personally). Yes, I'm single. Ex-architect, ex-lecturer, writer, musician, and presently trekking new terrain (often not literally).

I don't purchase stamps, so if you want to make contact, its over to you.
I'm not a"player" and everyone but the dead has baggage; it is a product of life.

I promise to be more wordy if you prod me.
Cats, sensuality, music, the ocean, pleasures of the senses, nature...I can do without five-star and a BMW.

I rarely send kisses, if I do, its is genuine and selective.

Kiss me free!
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At a glance

Summary instrumental's details instrumental's ideal partner
Age 54 years old 38 - 60 yrs old
Location Sydney - City, NSW

(eastern suburbs)

within 10km of Bondi 2026
Body type Average Average, Slim, Athletic
Height 5'10/177 cm 5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Single Widowed, Divorced, Separated, Single
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Age range
21 yrs
No, have no children, Yes, have children living at home, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Undecided
Personality Social Average, Social, Very Private, Very Social, Private
Eye colour Brown Other, Brown, Blue, Green, Grey, Hazel, Black
Hair colour Other Light Brown, Dark Brown, Red, Blonde, Black, Other
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian Middle Eastern, Black / African, Indian, Mixed Race, North European, Other Islander, Other, Other Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Aboriginal / TSI, Asian, South European, East European
Religion Other Atheist, Agnostic, Other, Buddhist, New Age, Hindu, Jewish
Political persuasion Left wing Swinging voter, Left wing, No strong beliefs
Sign of the Zodiac Sagittarius Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker
Diet No special diet Vegan, No special diet, Vegetarian
Have pets Yes, have pets No, Yes, have pets, No, like pets but do not have any
Education level Post Graduate Degree, Post Graduate, Some college, Diploma
Industry Advertising / PR / Media
Job role Professional Other, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Student, Senior Management, Business Owner, Professional, Executive, Management, Technical

What I'm looking for

Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things, lets talk. Soon. LOCAL please.

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
Movies & TV
Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
Other Interests
Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.

My groups

  1. Over 50 & Fabulous
  2. Gumtree Singles
  3. Casual Liaisons

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