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54, Male, Single, Sydney - City, NSW
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Let's just elope. *Appearance is something absolute, but reality is not that way - everything is interdependent, not absolute.* Dalai Lama.

In the words of Clarkson, this *online dating* is: "rubbish!"
All this profiling .... a predictor of little.

Most of us rely 96.5% on the visuals, don't we?
And What Happens When we Meet.

If you are an attractive, easy going, sensible and stable gal, and want to meet a single, sensual guy for mutual support and some engaging conversations/conservations (words and jams), give me a hoy. C'est tout.

The basics of attraction are transparent: its not a case of "might we? but "we cannot do otherwise."

If we like each other, *something* will happen.
If we can't do without each other, *everything* will happen.

You will have to put up with me, although that's not too onerous.
I'm not the average Joe. Nothing against Josephs personally.

For important reasons, I don't purchase stamps, so if you want to make contact, its over to you. I'm not a"player" and everyone but the dead has baggage; it is a product of life.

I promise to be more wordy if you prod me gently via email.

Cats, sensuality, music, the ocean, pleasures of the senses, nature...

Ex-architect, rock musician, writer ... traversing new terrain without a GPS.
I can do without five-star and a BMW. But not without touch + empathy.

I rarely send kisses, if I do, its is genuine and selective.

Kiss me free!
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At a glance

Summary instrumental's details instrumental's ideal partner
Age 54 years old 38 - 60 yrs old
Location Sydney - City, NSW

(eastern suburbs)

within 10km of Bondi 2026
Body type Average Slim, Athletic, Average
Height 5'10/177 cm 5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Single Single, Widowed, Divorced, Separated
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Age range
21 yrs
Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children living at home, No, have no children
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's
Personality Social Very Social, Very Private, Private, Social, Average
Eye colour Brown Hazel, Other, Green, Blue, Brown, Grey, Black
Hair colour Other Other, Black, Red, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Blonde
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian Middle Eastern, Other Islander, Other Caucasian, North European, Other, Asian, Black / African, East European, Mixed Race, Indian, Aboriginal / TSI, South European, Hispanic / Latino
Religion Other Other, New Age, Atheist, Jewish, Buddhist, Agnostic, Hindu
Political persuasion Left wing No strong beliefs, Left wing, Swinging voter
Sign of the Zodiac Sagittarius Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker
Diet No special diet Vegan, Vegetarian, No special diet
Have pets Yes, have pets Yes, have pets, No, like pets but do not have any, No
Education level Post Graduate Some college, Post Graduate, Degree, Diploma
Industry Advertising / PR / Media
Job role Professional Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Professional, Executive, Student, Senior Management, Management, Business Owner, Technical, Other

What I'm looking for

Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things, lets talk. Soon. LOCAL please.

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
Movies & TV
Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
Other Interests
Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.

My groups

  1. Over 50 & Fabulous
  2. Gumtree Singles
  3. Casual Liaisons

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