Let's just elope. *Appearance is something absolute, but reality is not that way - everything is interdependent, not absolute.* Dalai Lama.
Time for a profile revamp.
The key to relationship for me is someone who gets who you are, and this is duly reciprocated. That is harder than its sounds. Much harder. I'm not finding it.
I'm opinionated, multi-faceted, I can be energised by intellectual and non intellectual pursuits. I value connection, joy, love, attraction, honesty, humour, warmth.
Ex-architect, musician, ex-lecturer, not the average guy (footy and beer are not my domains). Nature, the ocean, the late afternoon sun on my back, birdsong in rain forests, composing/recording/playing music. I cook well. An affinity for the sensual.
I'm in the Eastern Suburbs. My life is presently ruled by prevailing exogenous factors which presents challenges, but I'm up for meeting someone who will cope.
My heritage is European, brown eyes, square shoulders, olive skin. You preferably are of European background & sensibility (not a *deal breaker*) exotic, perhaps?
Tactile, engaging, intellectual, youthful, serious, sensitive, sensual, warm, frivolous. If you are here to *purchase*, rather than just browse, let's explore!!
I have no stamps (nor buying same, relevant reasons given) so if you want to make contact, its over to you. I very rarely send kisses, and if I do, its is genuine and selective. I'm not a "player" in any sense, and I want to find that reciprocity of spirit that is rare and invaluable.
You will probably be 40/50s, active and fit, not too conventional, with a realistic understanding of your present position in life (dating is different when you are older).
All this sounds way too serious, n'est-ce pas? So shoot me something funky!
I'm ready for some real engagement. Let's cook up something unique.
At a glance
|Summary||instrumental's details||instrumental's ideal partner|
|Age||54 years old||36 - 65 yrs old|
Sydney - City, NSW
|within 10km of Bondi 2026|
|Body type||Average||Average, Slim, Athletic|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Widowed, Single, Divorced, Separated|
Yes, have children who don't live at home
||No, have no children, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children living at home|
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine, Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's|
|Personality||Social||Very Social, Average, Social, Private, Very Private|
|Eye colour||Brown||Other, Hazel, Green, Blue, Black, Grey, Brown|
|Hair colour||Other||Red, Blonde, Black, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Other|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||Other Caucasian, Mixed Race, South European, Black / African, North European, Other, Aboriginal / TSI, Middle Eastern, Indian, Asian, Hispanic / Latino, East European, Other Islander|
|Religion||Other||Buddhist, Atheist, Jewish, Hindu, Agnostic, Other, New Age|
|Political persuasion||Left wing||Left wing, Swinging voter, No strong beliefs|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Sagittarius Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker|
|Diet||No special diet||No special diet, Vegetarian, Vegan|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets||No, No, like pets but do not have any, Yes, have pets|
|Education level||Post Graduate||Degree, Diploma, Some college, Post Graduate|
|Industry||Advertising / PR / Media|
|Job role||Professional||Senior Management, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Student, Management, Technical, Professional, Business Owner, Other, Executive|
What I'm looking for
Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things, lets talk. Soon. LOCAL please.
- Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship
- Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
- Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
- Movies & TV
- Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
- The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
- Other Interests
- Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.
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