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60, Female, Divorced, Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW
Last online:
21 Oct '16


“Seeking professional, legally available, male : good IQ/EQ balance. Min177cm , a night owl & city lover with adult/ no children.”
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Above is a time saver for those who won't read to the end ......

Elegant, enigmatic, entrepreneurial, savvy and (com)passionate I am attracted to intelligence, sensitivity and style and offer the same in return....

I am a straight talking but gentle hearted woman who enjoys laughter, music, intellectual challenge and exploring the ridiculous. Sometimes I even think inside the square........
Meditative, creative and totally in touch with my inner (sometimes wild) child.........."different"............

On a more practical note:

I am a nightowl and definitely not a morning person. Please be one too !! (This is a deal breaker)
Upper North Shore is as far 'bush' as I am ever likely to get. Enjoy country get aways but a city girl at heart.
Probably not for the more conventional man ....however no one ever died of boredom round me. MBTI ENTJ .
Vegetarian friendly and sometimes vegan cook
I am artistic with strong tech - IT & Construction - background too (strange perhaps, but true)
My upbringing and background has had strong European influences
Do not need you to accompany me clothes shopping...ever !!! That has to be a plus?
Given the right set of circumstances, I may consider relocating to another City.

Realistically ..........just want someone nice who likes me..... then we can both learn to "play nice and share" again!!

You will be erudite, educated, empathic - and respect my criteria. Your children, like mine, will be totally independent and no little "late harvests" please.

No pic No response No exceptions

If what I have said resonates - I would love to hear from you .....(but only if you are OVER 50 please)

Not interested in unsolicited email requests . If you make first contact you send the email as do I

At a glance





Ideal partner

Age 60 years old 52 - 65 yrs old
Location Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW Within 50km
Relationship status Divorced Divorced, Single
Height 5'7/170 cm 5'10/177 cm - 6'3/190 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality Australian
Ethnicity/background White / Caucasian
Sign of the Zodiac Taurus Check compatibility »
Personality Social Social, Private, Average
Eye colour Grey
Hair colour Blonde
Body type Average Slim, Average, Athletic
children & pets
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, No, have no children
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's
Have pets No, like pets but do not have any
career & education
Education level Degree Degree, Post Graduate
Industry Other
Job role Business Owner Technical, Tradesperson, Senior Management, Executive, Business Owner
Religion Agnostic
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet

What I'm looking for

****Legally and emotionally unattached is my deal breaker. *** Erudite, charming and fun would be a pleasant would simpatico, solvent and urbane. NB** separated = still legally married do not accept contacts from separated men (thats unless the "ink is still drying on the decree"

  • Male, for a relationship or dating

My interests

Enthralled by the classics, bemused by jazz, abhor rap & C&W, fairly adventurous with the rest ...even some techno (think Stockhausen / Kraftwerk!)
Psychology & philosophy; sometimes poetry. HBR, Bernard Salt is very interesting..... Robert Johnson a favourite... The usual - and sometimes unusual - mix of newspapers and magazines.
Movies & TV
Tend to prefer the thought provoking, European or classical variety .... (and comedy for therapy) TV is not my default option
PASS! Dont mind if you do - might even watch. Have been known to mess about on boats, watch a game or two. Active just not sports oriented. Enjoy watching Winter sports on TV.
Other Interests
Music, meditation, the arts, painting, photography, walking, friendships , and long esoteric conversations about everything and nothing and all in between.

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