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57, Female, Separated, Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC

Last online:
17 Oct '18
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About me - headline

Will keep you safe if you keep me wild...

About me - description

A woman of substance... whimsy, warm and wise - scouse wit, resilience and determination have been my bedrock.

Ideally, I'd prefer to meet someone by happenstance or serendipity.

I take care of my physical and emotional health, never owned an iron, hair dryer or straightener and don't appear crumpled ...
A strong network of close family and friends keep me positive, balanced and engaged.

Sensual and creative, I embrace my femininity, feel confident with my own sense of style - elegant, sassy, sometimes boho swag or Blundstones and lumberjack shirt.... not all at once mind.. um... plaid shirt `n heels..non..

I share a solid friendship with my ex and cognisant that this is not possible for many.

Emerging writer of short literary fiction currently writing a memoir, this body of work aims to illuminate the inherent strength and resilience of women, hilarious, off the wall and poignant.
Enjoyed modest publishing successes and shared my work publicly at literary events.

I support women who are mired within the cycle of domestic abuse and violence and I don't suffer fools gladly.

Traveled, assertive, value my autonomy, love animals, my garden, cinema, theatre, lively debate and feel most at peace when surrounded by nature.
I like to entertain but equally content with my own company.
I collect feathers, shells, stones, fossils - and my studio workshop is my sacred, hallowed space.

A proud mum of three girls who are intelligent, assertive young women and we are close.

I find funny, smart men are sexy, that's what I want.

I am discerning, not in a hurry and I'm not a therapist.
I love hands, necks, the musky smell of a man, gentleness.

Many men say they want a strong woman, many don't know what to do with her when they meet her


At a glance

her details

  • 57 years old
  • Female
  • Melbourne - Northern Suburbs, VIC
  • Separated
  • Australian
  • Have no children at home - 3 children aged 21 to 26 yo
  • Don't want children
  • Personality - Very Social
  • Star sign - Scorpio
  • 5'1/154 cm
  • Body Type - Average
  • Eye colour - Hazel
  • Hair colour - Dark Brown
  • Education - Post Graduate
  • Healthcare / Medical
  • Other job role
  • Non-smoker
  • Occasional/social drinker
  • No special diet
  • Other religion
  • Left wing
  • Have pets

her ideal partner

  • 47 - 62 years old
  • Male
  • Within 500km
  • Separated, Widowed, Divorced
  • Other background, Mixed Race, Asian, White / Caucasian, Indian
  • Sometimes have children at home, Have no children at home
  • Don't want children
  • Personality - Social, Private, Sometimes Social
  • at least 5'8/172 cm
  • Body Type - Slim, Average, Athletic
  • Hair colour - White, Blonde, Red, Dark Brown, Grey, Black, Bald
  • Education - Degree, Post Graduate
  • Arts / Entertainment / Sport / Recreation, Education / Science, Retired, Financial Services, Advertising / PR / Media, Healthcare / Medical
  • Professional
  • Non-smoker
  • Occasional/social drinker
  • No special diet
  • Agnostic, Atheist
  • Left wing
  • Have pets, Like pets but do not have any

What I'm looking for

Educated thoughtful, engaging, with a positive sense of self. Family centric, respect women, have breadth and understanding. Altruism, empathy, sensitivity, but a good sense of humour is essential and sexy. Prefer old wives tales stay in the past . Btw who likes long drives, I don't :-/

My interests

Eclectic... Jazz, pop, rock, loved The Clash, Ramones, Elvis Costello, The Jam... Crowded House, Paul Kelly, Motown, Joni Mitchell, Aretha Franklin, Carly Simon, James Morrison, Paul Waller, Amy Winehouse, Doris Day, The Stones, Leonard Cohen, Nick Cave (such verbosity)... much
The Age, Guardian. Subscribe to numerous literary journals - Overland, Meanjin, Glimmer Train, The Griffiths Review. Doris Lessing, Margaret Atwood, Kate Grenville, John Goldsworthy, Martin Halligan, Kate Holden, Donna Tartt, Kate Atkinson, Joyce Carol Oates, Nikki Gemmel, AA Gill
Movies & TV
ABC, SBS, listen to ABC Radio National and Melbourne ABC, various podcasts. Love British BBC productions, The Night Manager, Happy Valley, Peeky Blinders. Eraserhead, Deliverence, Taxi Driver, Mississippi Burning, Once We are Warriors, Carol, American Sniper, The Danish Girl, Anything with Jon Hurt
Used to play tennis and ski till knee injury - surgery, would like to resume. I am fit, I meditate, walk, row, (at home) .
Other Interests
Lead an expansive independent life. Camino de Santiago soon NOT ON FB Intolerant of ignorance, misogyny, bigotry, racism. Never dated online before, feel a healthy dose of trepidation... Seems to be that snogging lots of frogs is the go... um er oooer No: Perfidy Players