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44, Male, Single, Liverpool / Fairfield, NSW
Last online:
02 May '16


“cardamom, lime and honey”
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I've recently moved back to Sydney after seven years in Hong Kong. I'm still unmarried and my mum thinks I might be gay, but I think it's just inertia, which I've shown an aptitude for since I left school and got a job pushing stuff around with a broom. The old blokes called me Speedy and it suited me perfectly but then I decided to run away to university. I stayed for a decade, travelled a lot and then ended up working in one of those big corporate law firms that everybody despises. Another decade. Now I'm back in Australia looking forward to summer.

At a glance





Ideal partner

Age 44 years old 25 - 40 yrs old
Location Liverpool / Fairfield, NSW Within 50km
Relationship status Single Single, Divorced, Widowed, Separated
Height 6'3/190 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality Australian
Personality Average
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Dark Brown
Body type Average Average, Slim, Athletic
children & pets
Have children No, have no children
Wants children Undecided Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Undecided, Want (more) children of my own
Have pets Yes, have pets
career & education
Education level Post Graduate
Industry Legal
Job role Professional
Religion Atheist
Political persuasion Left wing
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker
Diet No special diet No special diet, Vegan, Vegetarian

What I'm looking for

Someone who's thoughtful, kind and fun. Like me, ha.

  • Female, for a relationship or dating

My interests

I sing Bohemian Rhapsody in the bath, sometimes with bubbles but mostly without.
Vladimir Nabokov, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Vikram Seth, Jane Austen, Tim Winton. I came late to Milan Kundera. At first I thought "Unbearable Lightness" was a stupid book, but at the end there's that stuff about the dog and animal rights, a splendidly precocious idea for Communist Europe.
Movies & TV
Chungking Express, The Banquet, A Bothersome Man, Look Both Ways, Flight of the Conchords
I go jogging sometimes. I hate it, but it makes me feel virtuous. Also I like to ride my bicycle (bi-i-cycle! bi-i-cycle!) and go tramping ... um, bushwalking?
Other Interests
When I'm feeling industrious I cook lentils and clean the dog's ears. Honey's really sweet but she doesn't appreciate the attention, so I should probably get out more.

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