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Headline“When odds are 1 in a million, be that 1.. ”
I've been known to write a great profile -one of my literary masterpieces is exemplified below..but at the end of the day I think I've come to realise the bottom line in finding Mr right is not what one writes in their profile or any preconceived ideals in a partner, It's letting go of what we ideally think we want so that we can open the door and make way for what we really need...
I've always expected that spark, that click and that attraction from hello..though if we dissect the word attraction - it means evoking some sort of liking or desire...evoking - is not instant and it's definitely not a spark reaction- it involves developing and nurturing -so hence there lies my mistake.
Looking back through my life's acquaintances, the ones that remain strong & near & dear are the ones that I can trust, the ones I can be comfortable with, the ones I can be myself with, the ones I can have great conversation with and the ones I want to call when I feel alone, when I want to vent & when I just want to talk..These, I call my friends.
So I conclude I'm looking for a friend first and foremost - & ultimately my best friend.. If we can have a great conversation from hello, if you can make me LOL, then everything else can spark & follow!
Friendships are nurtured - relationships are developed.
Ok, So there are 4million people in this city..Sounds like a lot right?
But half are women &I don't swing that way.
So, 2million men..But then you have age limits..Let's say over 35-keeping it real..Under 45-keeping it sexy
Now there's 1million left.
But half of them are married, 20%gay 50%baby daddy's-that leaves 200k
I want someone college educated & a little bit hot. So that leaves 50K
Oh & he's got to be taller than me..20K left :(
So, yeah, I'm on five dating websites to find the "1".
At a glance
|Age||42 years old||40 - 48 years old|
|Location||Melbourne City, VIC||Within 50km|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke|
|Ethnicity/background||White / Caucasian|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Aquarius Check compatibility »|
|children & pets|
|Have children||No children|
|career & education|
|Education level||Diploma, Some college, Degree, Post Graduate|
|Religion||Other Christian||Other Christian, Catholic|
What I'm looking for
- Male, for a relationship or dating