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spade9 (was Barnes44)

51, Male, Single, Canterbury / Bankstown, NSW


“hi, just a friendly,happy guy wishing to meet someone who is feminine and friendly”
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I've been described by my friends as a very loyal, trustworthy and caring person. At first I'm a little shy but once you get to know me, I really open up. On one hand I can be quiet and on the other, I can be the life of the party (I tend to surprise some people, they just don't expect it from a conservative, guy).

I consider myself as being a very caring and genuine person. I'm not into superficial and material things,
I enjoy travel, have done a fair bit of it over the years - I suppose one benefit of being single . Will definitely continue to do more of this!!

Ultimately, I seek the same as everyone, is too short to be taken too serious and two is better than one !!!!

At a glance





Ideal partner

Age 51 years old 33 - 47 yrs old
Location Canterbury / Bankstown, NSW Within 100km of his
Relationship status Single Widowed, Divorced, Separated, Single
Height 5'4/162 cm 5'0/152 cm - 5'5/165 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnicity/background White / Caucasian White / Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Mixed Race, Asian
Sign of the Zodiac Sagittarius Check compatibility »
Personality Very Social Social, Average, Private, Very Social
Eye colour Hazel
Hair colour Black
Body type Average Athletic, Slim, Average
children & pets
Have children No, have no children Yes, have children living at home sometimes, No, have no children, Yes, have children who don't live at home
Wants children Undecided Undecided
Have pets Yes, have pets
career & education
Education level Diploma
Industry Construction
Job role Management
Religion Catholic
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Drinking habits Non-drinker Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker

What I'm looking for

I would say that my ideal partner would definitely need to be 'normal', honest, enjoy the simple things in life, down to earth, feminine and share the same values as I do. A happy fun person with a sense of humour is also very high on my wish list. Start as friends and see where it go;s....

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Generally all music, with exception to country, heavy metal and rap.
Only have time for magazines and the paper.current affairs.....
Movies & TV
I love the movies, would go every week, provided some quality can be maintained...although I get desperate from time to time, and see some shockers!
Enjoy squash and a good long walk. Also, don't mind attending a good sporting event from time to time.
Other Interests
Travel, good company and of course, good food! Don't mind a BBQ with friends....walks,bushwalking,

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