*I Need a Lover That Won't Drive Me Crazy.*
So said Mr Mellencamp. I know what he means. (You probably do too).
I'm all for a *real* relationship, but I guess my past web profiles haven't attracted the requisite partner :-/
If you want to start with *lust* and then see where it goes, drop me a line (or two).
I don't buy stamps, or send kisses, so its "over to you."
I guess we all make a snap decision based on the profile pix, so if you are not pressing the exit button after viewing mine, then say hello. Someone of European background might be good.
You prefer older guys (albeit active ones) for whatever reason...
And I prefer someone of slim-medium build, empathetic, attractive of mind, body, and spirit, and living locally. Warm, sensible, with a less-than-conventional attitude. Tactile, tantric (?), sensual.
The rest can be negotiable, for now. Engaging, connected to the landscape and the elements, with the right balance of intellect, conversation, simplicity with complexity. *Fun* would be a distinct bonus.
I'm a good cook.
I have a three legged cat.
My car is 15 years old.
I swim most (warm) days.
I'm more impressed with attitude than altitude.
I'm crap at playing games.
I'm about 5'10" with brown eyes and size 12 feet.
At a glance
|Summary||instrumental's details||instrumental's ideal partner|
|Age||55 years old||35 - 55 yrs old|
Sydney City, NSW
|Within 10km of his|
|Body type||Average||Athletic, Slim, Average|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Single, Widowed, Divorced, Separated|
Yes, have children who don't live at home
||No, have no children, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes|
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours||Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine, Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's|
|Personality||Social||Average, Private, Very Private, Very Social, Social|
|Eye colour||Brown||Brown, Green, Hazel, Blue, Other, Black, Grey|
|Hair colour||Other||Red, Other, Dark Brown, Blonde, Black, Light Brown|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||South European, Other, Other Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, East European, Middle Eastern, Asian, Black / African, North European, Indian, Aboriginal / TSI, Other Islander, Mixed Race|
|Religion||Other||Other, Agnostic, Hindu, Jewish, New Age, Atheist, Buddhist|
|Political persuasion||Left wing||Swinging voter, Left wing, No strong beliefs|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Sagittarius Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker|
|Diet||No special diet||Vegetarian, No special diet, Vegan|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets||Yes, have pets, No, No, like pets but do not have any|
|Education level||Post Graduate||Post Graduate, Degree, Diploma, Some college|
|Industry||Advertising / PR / Media|
|Job role||Professional||Management, Student, Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Professional, Business Owner, Technical, Senior Management, Other, Executive|
What I'm looking for
Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things. "Cute" in whatever guise.
- Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship
- Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
- Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
- Movies & TV
- Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
- The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
- Other Interests
- Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.
- Send a kiss to flirt and see if there is an initial attraction
- Open up a 30-day contact period* to send unlimited messages
- During the contact period you can also chat if instrumental is online now.
- Get to know instrumental safely and securely before you exchange your personal contact details
* One RSVP stamp is required per contact period.
- Last online:
- 27 Aug '15