What if there were no hypothetical questions?
So, after time on/off the spinning carousel of *dating sites* its time for a *see change.*
My life over the last few years has been a Luna Park kind of experience.
Not that the different rides have all been fun. Some have been precipitous. Holding your breath, hanging on, surrendering to the free fall. And sometimes, popcorn. And its not over yet.
Dispensing with normality has become rather mandatory.
If you want money, security, long beach walks, something predictable, I don't think I can accommodate you. I can nevertheless offer mental and tactile stimulation. Some perspectives less obvious.
As much as a well-connected and mutually agreeable relationship is sought, I'm too skeptical to think that a few website profile clauses will lead us down the Yellow Brick Road (let alone to Kansas) but perhaps up the garden path to a secluded scented garden.
So, right now, I'm seeking a sensual, engaging gal, perhaps 45-55, who is in touch with herself, and her physicality. Good conversation coupled with less words.
I play rock and roll, I write, I am challenging some rusted and damaging positions we find ourselves being forced to endure. My professional work is generically creative.
I prefer someone of slim-medium build, attractive of mind, body and spirit. In touch with their libido.
Warm, tactile, open, empathetic and decidedly *local* (Eastern Suburbs). Unconventional but with a fine moral underpinning. Considered spontaneity.
I don't send kisses, nor do I procure stamps.... if you find resonance, send me a message.
I'm a good cook.
I have a three legged cat.
My car is 15 years old.
I swim most (warm) days.
I'm more impressed with attitude than altitude.
I'm crap at playing games.
I'm about 5'10" with brown eyes.
At a glance
|Summary||instrumental's details||instrumental's ideal partner|
|Age||55 years old||40 - 60 yrs old|
Sydney City, NSW
|Within 10km of his|
|Body type||Average||Slim, Athletic, Average|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Separated, Single, Widowed, Divorced|
Yes, have children who don't live at home
||No, have no children, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children living at home|
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours||Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine|
|Personality||Social||Very Social, Private, Very Private, Average, Social|
|Eye colour||Brown||Blue, Black, Grey, Brown, Hazel, Other, Green|
|Hair colour||Other||Dark Brown, Other, Blonde, Light Brown, Red, Black|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||Other, Other Caucasian, Black / African, North European, Indian, Hispanic / Latino, East European, Other Islander, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Asian, South European, Aboriginal / TSI|
|Religion||Other||New Age, Jewish, Other, Atheist, Agnostic, Buddhist, Hindu|
|Political persuasion||Left wing||Swinging voter, No strong beliefs, Left wing|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Sagittarius Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker|
|Diet||No special diet||Vegan, Vegetarian, No special diet|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets||No, like pets but do not have any, No, Yes, have pets|
|Education level||Post Graduate||Post Graduate, Degree, Diploma, Some college|
|Industry||Advertising / PR / Media|
|Job role||Professional||Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Business Owner, Technical, Professional, Other, Management, Student, Senior Management, Executive|
What I'm looking for
Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things. "Cute" in whatever guise.
- Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship
- Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
- Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
- Movies & TV
- Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
- The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
- Other Interests
- Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.
- Send a kiss to flirt and see if there is an initial attraction
- Open up a 30-day contact period* to send unlimited messages
- During the contact period you can also chat if instrumental is online now.
- Get to know instrumental safely and securely before you exchange your personal contact details
* One RSVP stamp is required per contact period.
- Last online:
- 28 Mar '15