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55, Male, Single, Sydney City, NSW
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about me

What if there were no hypothetical questions?

So, after time on/off the spinning carousel of *dating sites* its time for a *see change.*

My life over the last few years has been a Luna Park kind of experience.
Not that the different rides have all been fun. Some have been precipitous. Holding your breath, hanging on, surrendering to the free fall. And sometimes, popcorn. And its not over yet.

Dispensing with normality has become rather mandatory.
If you want money, security, long beach walks, something predictable, I don't think I can accommodate you. I can nevertheless offer mental and tactile stimulation. Some perspectives less obvious.

As much as a well-connected and mutually agreeable relationship is sought, I'm too skeptical to think that a few website profile clauses will lead us down the Yellow Brick Road (let alone to Kansas) but perhaps up the garden path to a secluded scented garden.

So, right now, I'm seeking a sensual, engaging gal, perhaps 45-55, who is in touch with herself, and her physicality. Good conversation coupled with less words.

I play rock and roll, I write, I am challenging some rusted and damaging positions we find ourselves being forced to endure. My professional work is generically creative.

I prefer someone of slim-medium build, attractive of mind, body and spirit. In touch with their libido.
Warm, tactile, open, empathetic and decidedly *local* (Eastern Suburbs). Unconventional but with a fine moral underpinning. Considered spontaneity.

I don't send kisses, nor do I procure stamps.... if you find resonance, send me a message.

I'm a good cook.
I have a three legged cat.
My car is 15 years old.
I swim most (warm) days.
I'm more impressed with attitude than altitude.
I'm crap at playing games.
I'm about 5'10" with brown eyes.

Kiss me free!
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At a glance

Summary instrumental's details instrumental's ideal partner
Age 55 years old 40 - 60 yrs old
Location Sydney City, NSW

(eastern suburbs)

Within 10km of his
Body type Average Slim, Athletic, Average
Height 5'10/177 cm 5'2/157 cm - 6'1/185 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Single Separated, Single, Widowed, Divorced
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Age range
22 yrs
No, have no children, Yes, have children who don't live at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children living at home
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours Undecided, Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours, Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's, Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine
Personality Social Very Social, Private, Very Private, Average, Social
Eye colour Brown Blue, Black, Grey, Brown, Hazel, Other, Green
Hair colour Other Dark Brown, Other, Blonde, Light Brown, Red, Black
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other Caucasian Other, Other Caucasian, Black / African, North European, Indian, Hispanic / Latino, East European, Other Islander, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Asian, South European, Aboriginal / TSI
Religion Other New Age, Jewish, Other, Atheist, Agnostic, Buddhist, Hindu
Political persuasion Left wing Swinging voter, No strong beliefs, Left wing
Sign of the Zodiac Sagittarius Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker
Diet No special diet Vegan, Vegetarian, No special diet
Have pets Yes, have pets No, like pets but do not have any, No, Yes, have pets
Education level Post Graduate Post Graduate, Degree, Diploma, Some college
Industry Advertising / PR / Media
Job role Professional Admin / Clerical / Secretarial, Business Owner, Technical, Professional, Other, Management, Student, Senior Management, Executive

What I'm looking for

Engaging, open minded, aware, supportive, a honed sense of humour, keen perception, and a non-conformist under the demure demeanour. Sensual, tactile, realistic, flexible, empathetic; you also like music, rain forests, and gain exquisite pleasure from simple things. "Cute" in whatever guise.

  • Female, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Music is a life blood for me: I play, listen, write, record, and sing .. (badly). Guitar, bass, drums. Beatles, Steely Dan, Beach Boys, Little Feat, R + B + Soul. Jeff Beck, Free, Zeppelin, and occasionally something slightly chilled. My own music. Funky stuff, rock stuff. Cool stuff.
Absorbed by Nassim Nicolas Taleb: Fooled by Randomness, The Black Swan, Anti Fragile. Biographies, philosophies, new paradigms. New ideas. Avoiding tabloids. I write my own books.
Movies & TV
Anything except a 20 second "news" grab. (Tame Your Dragon was fun). From Mythbusters to Q + A /Q I. Programs with a "Q" in them? But I don't watch a lot. I prefer playing music or conversation. French films, docos, satire, nature and ones that take me to places I can't get to.
The pleasures of the seaside, thanks. Any well played match is a good one, but I'm not much of a spectator. Surf ski, swim, walk, stretch, breathe ..
Other Interests
Challenging conventions, art, sensuality, animal rights, photography, pomegranate juice, new social paradigms. Arguing with politicians. Discussing contemporary issues. Food. Philosophy. Talking to you. Reciprocate, S'il Vouz Plait.

My groups

  1. Over 50 & Fabulous
  2. Gumtree Singles
  3. Casual Liaisons

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Last online:
28 Mar '15


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