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60, Female, Divorced, Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW


“"Elegant, enigmatic, entrepreneurial, savvy and (com)passionate......”
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Elegant, enigmatic, entrepreneurial, savvy and (com)passionate I am attracted to intelligence, sensitivity and style and offer the same in return....

I am a straight talking but gentle hearted woman who enjoys laughter, music, intellectual challenge and exploring the ridiculous. Sometimes I even think inside the square........
Meditative, creative and totally in touch with my inner (sometimes wild) child.........."different"............

On a more practical note:

I am a nightowl ie definitely not a morning person. Please be one too !! (This is trully proving to be a deal breaker)
Upper North Shore is as far 'bush' as I am ever likely to get. Enjoy country get aways but a city girl at heart.
Probably not for the more conventional man ....however no one ever died of boredom round me. MBTI ENTJ .
Vegetarian friendly and sometimes vegan cook
I am artistic with strong tech - IT & Construction - background too (strange perhaps, but true)
My upbringing and background has had strong European influences
Do not need you to accompany me clothes shopping...ever !!! That has to be a plus?
Given the right set of circumstances, I would consider relocating to another City.

Realistically ..........just want someone nice who likes me..... then we can both learn to "play nice and share" again!!

You will be erudite, educated, empathic - and respect my criteria. Your children, like mine, will be totally independent.

No pic No response No exceptions

If what I have said resonates - I would love to hear from you .....(but only if you are OVER 50 please)

Not interested in unsolicited email requests . If I make first contact I send the email and expect you to email me if you make first contact- Simple!

At a glance





Ideal partner

Age 60 years old 52 - 65 yrs old
Location Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW

(North Shore)

Relationship status Divorced Divorced, Single
Height 5'6/167 cm 5'10/177 cm - 6'3/190 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnicity/background White / Caucasian
Sign of the Zodiac Taurus Check compatibility »
Personality Social Social, Average, Private
Eye colour Grey
Hair colour Blonde
Body type Average Athletic, Slim, Average
children & pets
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children who don't live at home, No, have no children
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's
Have pets No, like pets but do not have any
career & education
Education level Degree Degree, Post Graduate
Industry Other
Job role Business Owner Senior Management, Tradesperson, Technical, Business Owner, Executive
Religion Agnostic
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet

What I'm looking for

****Legally and emotionally unattached is my deal breaker. *** Erudite, charming and fun would be a pleasant would simpatico, solvent and urbane. NB** separated = still legally married do not accept contacts from separated men (thats unless the "ink is still drying on the decree"

  • Male, for a relationship

My interests

Enthralled by the classics, bemused by jazz, abhor rap & C&W, fairly adventurous with the rest ...even some techno (think Stockhausen / Kraftwerk!)
Psychology & philosophy; sometimes poetry. HBR, Bernard Salt is very interesting..... Robert Johnson a favourite... The usual - and sometimes unusual - mix of newspapers and magazines.
Movies & TV
Tend to prefer the thought provoking, European or classical variety .... (and comedy for therapy) TV is not my default option
PASS! Dont mind if you do - might even watch. Have been known to mess about on boats, watch a game or two. Active just not sports oriented.
Other Interests
Music, meditation, the arts, painting, photography, walking, friendships , and long esoteric conversations about everything and nothing and all in between.

My groups

  1. Food and Wine Lovers
  2. Arts and Culture
  3. Over 50 & Fabulous
  4. Geeks and Gadgets

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