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60, Female, Divorced, Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW
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“Seeking professional, legally available, man : good IQ/EQ balance. a night owl & city lover with adult/ no children.”
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Elegant, enigmatic, entrepreneurial, savvy and (com)passionate I am attracted to intelligence, sensitivity and style and offer the same in return......

I am a straight talking but gentle hearted woman who enjoys laughter, music, intellectual challenge and exploring the ridiculous. Sometimes I even think inside the square........
Meditative, creative and totally in touch with my inner (sometimes wild) child.........."different"............

On a more practical note:

I am a nightowl and definitely not a morning person. Please be one too !! (This is a deal breaker)
Upper N/ Shore is probably as far 'bush' as I am ever likely to get.
Possibly not for the more conventional man ....however no one ever died of boredom round me. MBTI ENTJ .
Vegetarian friendly and sometimes vegan cook :
I am artistic with strong tech - IT & Construction - background too (strange eh?)
My upbringing and background has had strong European influences
Given the right set of circumstances, I may consider relocating to another City.

Realistically ..........just want someone nice who likes me..... then we can both learn to "play nice and share" again!!

You will be erudite, educated, empathic - and respect my criteria. Your children, like mine, will be totally independent and no little "late harvests" please.

If what I have said resonates - I would love to hear from you .....

At a glance





Ideal Partner

Age 60 years old 52 - 65 years old
Location Sydney - Upper North Shore, NSW Within 50km
Relationship status Divorced Single, Divorced
Height 5'7/170 cm 5'10/177 cm - 6'3/190 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality Australian
Ethnicity/background White / Caucasian
Sign of the Zodiac Taurus Check compatibility »
Personality Social Private, Average, Social
Eye colour Grey
Hair colour Blonde
Body type Average Slim, Average, Athletic
children & pets
Have children Yes, have children who don't live at home
How many
Don't live with them, Sometimes living with them, No children
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own or anyone else's Doesn't want children
Have pets No, like pets but do not have any
career & education
Education level Degree Degree, Post Graduate
Industry Other
Job role Business Owner Technical, Senior Management, Tradesperson, Business Owner, Executive
Religion Agnostic
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet

What I'm looking for

****Legally and emotionally unattached is my deal breaker. *** Erudite, charming and fun would be a pleasant would simpatico, solvent and urbane. Pragmatically, at my tender age, perhaps an archaeologist? or plastic surgeon?

  • Male, for a relationship or dating

My interests

Enthralled by the classics, bemused by jazz, abhor rap & C&W, fairly adventurous with the rest ...even some techno (think Stockhausen / Kraftwerk!)
Psychology & philosophy; sometimes poetry. HBR (when I cn get my hands on it) .... Robert Johnson a favourite..( Patchett doesnt resonate with me ) . The usual - and sometimes unusual - mix of newspapers and magazines...all mainly online now
Movies & TV
Tend to prefer the thought provoking, European or classical variety .... (and comedy for therapy) TV is not my default option
PASS! Dont mind if you do - might even watch. Have been known to mess about on boats, watch a game or two. Active just not sports oriented. Enjoy watching Winter sports on TV.
Other Interests
Music, meditation, the arts, painting, photography, walking, friendships , and long esoteric conversations about everything and nothing and all in between.

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