Life is best shared. Are you with me?
OK, let's keep it real. We aren't in our 20's anymore. With this comes maturity, knowing what we want out of life and what's important to us in a partner. We've been in and out of love at least once in our lives (well hopefully). We more than likely come as a package deal - with kids thrown in the mix! And for us to be on here looking, we're hoping to find love again.
Old fashioned good values are important to me. I have well and truly left behind the partying days of my youth, I rarely drink, and I don't smoke. I love animals. I need to be near the water - it soothes me - even just to look at it, hear it. I now prefer a quieter life bringing up my 2 boys and enjoying the company of close friends and family. I would much prefer to go out for a quiet drink or dinner where I can talk and get to know someone, than go to a noisy pub.
I'm tall (5'10" or 178cm) so my ideal partner would be as tall or taller.
I love everything that the south coast and surrounds has to offer: the beaches, the country side, the relaxed way of life. I enjoy trips down the coast for a weekend away, markets, exploring small country towns and a weekend drive. I would love to find someone that wants to build a life together, someone that wants to travel in the future, someone that is equally happy being busy or just relaxing.
I have a fun and sometimes cheeky sense of humour. I can laugh at myself. I can be shy at times particularly in unfamiliar social situations and when getting to know someone new.
I'm now ready for the next chapter of my life. I do have a lot to offer someone, so If you're sincere then please say hello.
At a glance
|Summary||iFiHadYou's details||iFiHadYou's ideal partner|
|Age||44 years old||37 - 53 yrs old|
|Location||Wollongong & Illawarra, NSW||Within 50km of her|
|Body type||A bit overweight|
|Height||5'10/177 cm||at least 5'10/177 cm|
|Smoking habits||Don't smoke||Don't smoke|
|Relationship status||Single||Single, Separated, Widowed, Divorced|
Yes, have children living at home
|Wants children||Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine||Don't want any (more) of my own ask me about yours|
|Ethnic/cultural background||Other Caucasian||Mixed Race, South European, Other Caucasian, North European, East European, Other|
|Political persuasion||No strong beliefs|
|Sign of the Zodiac||Scorpio Check compatibility »|
|Drinking habits||Occasionally / socially||Occasionally / socially, Non-drinker|
|Diet||No special diet||No special diet|
|Have pets||Yes, have pets|
|Education level||Some college|
|Job role||Customer Service Role|
What I'm looking for
Someone tall, caring, considerate, warm personality, can enjoy a laugh. Someone trustworthy, loyal, dependable.
- Male, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship
- I particulary love Adele at the moment. I also like Pink, Thirsty Merc, Bon Jovi, Lady GaGa, Kelly Clarkson, Robbie Williams, Brian Adams. I like music from the 60's to the current top 40. I don't like rap or techno.
- Anything that grapbs my interest - either fiction or non-fiction.
- Movies & TV
- Thrillers, comedies, occassional action movie, family movies. I am not a fan of horror.
- Other Interests
- I do enjoy the odd bit of fishing (would love to be better though), photography, reading, country drives, markets, antique shops, getting out in the garden and pottering around.
- Send a kiss to flirt and see if there is an initial attraction
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- Last online:
- 11 Apr '15