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rfl4u (was heureuxJM)

48, Male, Divorced, Sutherland, NSW
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about me

Calmly and casually looking for that special one..... a woman that has a smile in her ravish her soul and smudge her lipstick rather than her mascara

My family heritage is of Italian background but having been born in Sydney, I'm lucky to have a good mix of both cultures, I feel.............all the passion of the Italians without the high maintenance, thanks to the laid back, easy going attitude of us Aussies ;-)
A guy of contradictions, many colours and pursuits that have enriched my life..........
Well educated (university degree, post grad diploma and doctorate) yet always willing to learn and definitely NOT a "know-it-all".
European background with a good mix of aussie upbringing.
Short fuse for racist, sexist attitudes yet a very calm guy, who rarely gets flustered.
Love a beer, glass of wine or spirits, yet never found the need to get drunk.
Lucky to have a great career and my business has been running successfully for over 25 years............ but cherish my down time with family and friends or in those quieter times, painting in my studio.
Looking for a woman who's an angel yet has a little devil inside her.......
I'm definitely the optimist, "half glass full" sort of guy.
Keep fit surfing, squash and going to the gym twice a week and on the occasion golf as well.
Also love to hit the ski fields too ;-0
Anyway, I hope I haven't bored you and if you'd like to know more..........well, you know what to do ;-)
Good luck in your search..........

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At a glance

Summary rfl4u's details rfl4u's ideal partner
Age 48 years old 38 - 50 yrs old
Location Sutherland, NSW Within 50km of his
Body type Athletic Slim, Athletic
Height 5'10/177 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Relationship status Divorced Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children Yes, have children living at home sometimes
Wants children Undecided
Personality Social
Eye colour Black
Hair colour Black
Nationality AUSTRALIA
Ethnic/cultural background Other
Religion Catholic
Political persuasion Swinging voter
Sign of the Zodiac Virgo Check compatibility »
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet
Have pets No, like pets but do not have any
Education level Post Graduate
Industry Healthcare / Medical
Job role Professional

What I'm looking for

I'm attracted to warmth, wit, kindness, passion, and a thoughtful, curious mind. Charm, cheekiness, style and substance go a long way as well..Someone who smiles with their eyes and someone I can share life's great experiences with. Everything else we can work out along the way!

  • Female, for a relationship or dating

My interests

Pretty much everything except for 'country and western' and "doof doof" music
Love to but don't get all that much time to do so
Movies & TV
I'm a sucker for the big special effects movies and don't mind the occasional 'chick flick' as well
Enjoy my surfing regularly and skiing when I can......go to the gym and on occasion a game of golf and squash. Enjoy watching most when I get the chance.
Other Interests
Cruising this great city in my old classic car discovering new restaurants and cafes. Also love to paint in my studio ;-)

My groups

  1. Single Parents
  2. Travel Bug

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Last online:
27 Mar '15


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