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Last online:
30 May '16


49, Female, Divorced, Canberra - Northern Suburbs, ACT


“Active, Laid-back, Secure, Funny, Intelligent, Professional Seeks Same in Male Partner!”
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I am a passionate, independent thinker. I love my child and friends. I'm active mostly and prefer to be outdoors, although cuddling and a good wine is a pursuit I can do often with the right person. I'm looking for a partner that is considerate, an achiever, an adventurer, active but knows when to be a home-body. I want a friend above all else. I'm an artist and a psychotherapist (not in my profession at present) and have savored life fully and wish to continue to live it equally with a mate at my side. I would love to meet someone who cares about nature, the community and who also understands the need to exercise and eat sensibly, but does not always achieve it, as I do. Must love animals too. I'm big on living a balanced life. I am also educated, have travelled extensively and lived and worked overseas. I'm originally from South Africa. My experiences have equipped me to hold my own in any conversation, as I know my values, boundaries and what I cherish. I am a romantic and I like attention and giving the same.

At a glance





Ideal partner

Age 49 years old 45 - 65 yrs old
Location Canberra - Northern Suburbs, ACT


Within 100km of her
Relationship status Divorced Widowed, Single, Separated, Divorced
Height 5'5/165 cm at least 5'7/170 cm
Smoking habits Don't smoke Don't smoke
Nationality SOUTH AFRICA
Ethnicity/background Other
Personality Average
Eye colour Hazel
Hair colour Dark Brown
Body type Average Athletic, Average, Slim
children & pets
Have children Yes, have children living at home sometimes
How many
Age range
15 yrs
Yes, have children living at home, Yes, have children living at home sometimes, Yes, have children who don't live at home
Wants children Don't want any (more) of my own but yours are fine
Have pets Yes, have pets
career & education
Education level Degree Degree, Diploma, Post Graduate
Industry Healthcare / Medical
Job role Other
Religion Atheist
Political persuasion Left wing No strong beliefs, Left wing, Swinging voter
Drinking habits Occasionally / socially Non-drinker, Occasionally / socially
Diet No special diet

What I'm looking for

A balanced, healthy, kind, generous, intelligent, PROFESSIONAL, adventurous man that is well travelled, concerned about the environment, loves animals, kids and above all wants a friend, a partner and a lover. MUST BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT & WANTING COMMITMENT. Must be EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE.

  • Male, for a relationship, dating, friendship or companionship

My interests

Paginini, Bach, Mozert, love Pavarotti -- any large voiced opera, does it for me. I enjoy listening to Nina Simone, Tracy Chapman, The Cure, The Who. I'm open to new musical experiences.
Love Nordic crime novels and highly enjoyed early Fowles. My reading profile at the moment is too eclectic and I need to refocus and find another author to love and then obsessively read all their books. If you want to suggest someone, please do.
Movies & TV
So diverse, not worth mentioning. Only black, very good, intelligent comedies. No rom coms at all. My teenage daughter cured me of this. I'm mostly a SBS/ABC watcher and enjoy alternative, indepth, quirky, intellectual local and foreign movies. I enjoy the odd block buster.
I believe in the intense but short workout. I walk daily. I like kayaking, rowing and I attend gym mostly. My exercise regime is dictated by work and family. I enjoy watching some sports with a partner. I need to get back to my exercise routine.
Other Interests
Botanical drawing, painting (mixed medium), bush walks, sailing (if invited), everything the beasts. Love new adventures and would love to do Northern Europe, Wales and Scotland with a partner. One day I'd love to build my own home.

My groups

  1. Arts and Culture
  2. Single Parents

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